Blaming our Experience on Others

Have you ever found yourself blaming external circumstances for your problems and challenges in life? Given somebody else the power to control your happiness?
It’s so easy to get caught up in the idea that external factors, other people, our environment, or the economy are the cause of our problems. When you think about it, you are allowing outside circumstances to define your state of mind. However, what and how you feel is your decision, not somebody else’s. True personal transformation comes from within. Now when we shift our focus to our internal world, we can tap into our inner wisdom and gain a deeper understanding of ourselves.

Inside-out thinking involves taking responsibility for our thoughts, emotions, and actions, rather than blaming external factors for our circumstances. It is the belief that our internal world shapes our external reality. By embracing this mindset, we can cultivate profound inner wisdom and achieve lasting transformation. One way to develop this way of thinking is by unraveling consciousness through personal stories.


Our stories shape our beliefs and perspectives, and by examining them, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and our inner world. Through introspection and self-reflection, we can identify limiting beliefs, negative thought patterns, and emotional triggers that hold us back from achieving our full potential.
By examining our personal stories, we can also gain insight into our values, passions, and purpose. Our stories can help us identify our strengths and areas of growth, as well as our unique qualities.